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ASK LAUREL: Skirts & Dresses for Plus Size

August 9, 2012

 
“You usually wear dresses and skirts, but for me it’s kind of hard to get used to it. Have you got any tips to feel comfortable when wearing dresses and skirts? (like: undergarments, how to sit down and not show anything and, even though it may seems gross or weird but I have to ask: how can I avoid chaffing between my inner thighs when wearing a skirt without tights?)”
Submitted By Reader: Marta
Any kind of etiquette for wearing skirts and dresses for a plus size women should be the same as those for “regular” size women. Cross your legs however you feel comfortable–this may mean crossing them at the ankle as opposed to at the knee.

Lady like leg crossing.

Also, don’t wear a skirt length that is too short or too long or too small. There is nothing like the embarrassment of bending over and showing your underwear to the world! Basically, it comes down to wear what your feel comfortable in and be honest to yourself about the size that FITS you.

Fit is very important–especially when you have a cellulite, a tummy, hips, and a butt! If I am wearing any type of tight fitting dress, I try to wear some form of Spanx (or Target’s equivalent, “Assets“).  They help hold your in and smooth you out.  I am one for comfort, so this is the most I will wear in shape wear, because I can’t stand to be uncomfortable! If the Spanx still don’t make your dress or skirt look good, you might want to rethink wearing it!

Spanx

 

Anytime that I am wearing a dress bare legged, it’s not completely the truth. It is more of an illusion that I am bare legged. Illusion is key to making anything look good on your body. It’s about how it looks to everyone else, not how you know it to be.



My tricks to wearing a skirt or dress comfortably bare legged is this:

1. I will sometimes wear a pair of cotton biker shorts underneath the skirt. They help with your legs rubbing together and also help smooth out your thighs and stomach–a two for one!

I have a pair from Forever 21+ (they are no longer available), here are some similar styles: by Woman Within,  Alight, Roamans.

Biker Shorts



2. If I don’t feel like wearing bike shorts, I will put on a Soothing Care Chafing Relief Powder Gel by Monistat. Put some on your thighs and it relieves any discomfort and helps prevent it. This has been a god send over the years!  This can be purchased in most drug stores, grocery stores, etc. in the women’s health department.

Monistat Soothing Care Chafing Relief Powder Gel


Have a question for me about living as a plus size women, plus size fashion, vintage, life,whatever… Please submit them and I will address topics in the blog! 

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